January always feels like a pause. The holidays are over, the house is quieter, and suddenly there’s space to think — sometimes more space than we asked for. Everyone’s talking about goals and fresh starts, but honestly? January often feels more reflective than motivating. That’s why our first Mom Wife Wine Book Club pick of the year is My Friends by Fredrik Backman. (This post includes an affiliate link, which means I may earn a small commission if you choose to purchase through it — at no extra cost to you.)
This isn’t a hustle-through-it book. It’s a sit-with-your-thoughts book. A remember-who-you-were book. A story about friendship, connection, and the people who shape us long after we stop seeing them every day.
If you want to join me, sign up for the Mom Wife Wine Book Club email list to stay up-to-date.
Why This Book, Why January
My Friends explores the kinds of relationships that form us quietly — long friendships, shared memories, the people who knew us before life got complicated. It’s emotional without being overwhelming, thoughtful without being heavy, and perfect for a month when many of us are already looking inward.
It’s also a great choice if:
- You’re getting back into reading after a break
- You don’t want a fast-paced or plot-heavy book
- You like stories that feel human, familiar, and a little tender
There’s no rush with this one. Read it slowly. Read it in pieces. Read it with interruptions and half-finished thoughts. That’s kind of the point.
You can buy the physical version of My Friends, or opt for an audiobook – anything goes here.
How the Mom Wife Wine Book Club Works
If you’re new here (or need a reminder), this book club is intentionally low-pressure.
- There’s no required reading schedule
- You don’t need to finish the book to participate
- You don’t need “smart” thoughts or perfect insights
- Reading quietly still counts
We’re here for connection, not completion.
You can join the conversation by commenting on this post, replying to the book club emails, or just reading along on your own.
January Discussion Prompts
If you do want something to think about while you read, here are a few gentle prompts to guide you—no homework vibes attached:
- Did any friendship in this book remind you of someone from your own life?
- Was there a moment that made you pause, reread, or sit quietly for a minute?
- How does this book make you feel: nostalgic, comforted, sad, hopeful?
- Are you someone who tends to hold onto friendships, or let them evolve over time?
Answer one. Answer none. Save them for later. Totally up to you.
What We’re Drinking While We Read 🍷
This feels like a familiar wine kind of book — the bottle you already know you like. Nothing fancy. Nothing rushed.
Wine optional, of course. Tea, coffee, or whatever makes reading feel cozy works just as well.
Looking Ahead: Mom Wife Wine Book Club
We’ll be reading My Friends throughout January, with February’s pick coming soon. The goal for this year isn’t to race through books — it’s to create a small, consistent space for reflection, conversation, and shared stories.
If January is slow for you, that’s okay. If you’re late starting, that’s okay too. You’re always welcome here.
Happy reading,
Sarah
